See how you’re wired — and find the words for it.
Mukai Institute builds calm, private tools for the conversations that matter most at home. The Parallax Assessment is the first of them: answer honestly for about ten minutes and get back your Bearing — a warm read of how you tend to connect, what you already do well, and one small thing to try tonight.
No account, no sign-up, nothing to install. It stays in your browser unless you choose to share it.
What your Bearing is
It is a short, plain-language reflection written to be read aloud with someone, not filed away. Strengths come first, because they are the true part people skip. Where things get stuck is named gently and specifically. It closes on one small thing you could try tonight — never on the sore spot.
How it goes
Start soft
You begin by saying how stuck things feel right now. If the answer is “not very,” we say so and let you go — this one is built for the harder days.
Answer honestly
A set of everyday statements about how you handle closeness, conflict and repair. No forms, no names, nobody to describe. You can stop and come back on the same device.
Read it together
Your Bearing renders straight away, free, with nothing held back behind an email address. If you want it to last, you can send yourself a copy.
What it is not
- Not a measurement of how good anyone is at this.
- Not a verdict about you, about anyone else, or about your relationship.
- Not therapy, and not a diagnosis. If things feel heavy, that deserves real support too.
- Not something anyone else sees unless you decide to share it.
Ready when you are.
It takes about ten minutes, your Bearing costs nothing, and it asks for no account.
Find your bearing